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Podcast Episode: How do you define democracy?

16 Jul
Citizens' assembly meeting shaping global democracy with diverse participants and activists holding signs

Diverse group participates in a global democracy assembly with activists holding supportive signs.

Pip: Happy Fourth of July — the holiday where Americans argue about what freedom means while grilling. Fitting, then, that masmeron decided to write about democracy itself.

Mara: This episode is one focused segment: what democracy actually means, how it functions in practice, and what it protects. Let’s start with the definition itself.

How Democracy Works — and Who It’s For

Pip: The central question here is deceptively simple: what does democracy actually mean? Not the civics-class answer, but a working definition that holds up across real communities and real lives.

Mara: The post builds toward exactly that, and one line captures the scope well: “Democracy equally and economically benefits all members of the population regardless of their age, sexual preference, race, cultural background, religion, political view, lawful and socioeconomic status.”

Pip: That framing matters because it shifts democracy from a procedural system — voting, elections, majority rule — into something closer to a guarantee of equitable standing. The mechanism isn’t the point; the protection is.

Mara: The post opens by acknowledging that people define democracy through their own personal views, beliefs, culture, and experience. That’s not relativism — it’s an honest starting point before offering a set of concrete, functional meanings.

Pip: And those meanings do real work. The list isn’t abstract: democracy prevents oppression and discrimination, provides opportunities for the poor and less privileged, and sustains what the post calls quality, healthy, and peaceful life.

Mara: There’s also a structural claim woven through: “Democracy demonstrates a well-regulated freedom.” That phrase does a lot of lifting. Freedom, yes — but regulated, bounded, shared. Not license.

Pip: Which is the part that tends to get dropped from the bumper-sticker version.

Mara: The post closes by framing these meanings as contextual rather than exhaustive — the language is “these relevant and impactful contextual meanings may sum up the true essence of democracy that can progressively shape the nation for better in the future.” It’s aspirational, deliberately so.

Pip: An infographic accompanies the post, illustrating five major benefits and impacts of democracy in society — so the ideas are laid out visually as well as in prose, which makes the argument more accessible across different kinds of readers.

Mara: Taken together, the post treats democracy less as a system to be described and more as a standard to be held.


Pip: A definition that includes the poor and less privileged by name isn’t a neutral one — and that’s the point.

Mara: What a system promises and what it actually delivers are worth revisiting. More of that ahead.

Podcast Episode: Empowering the Entrepreneurial Mindset

16 Jul
Woman juggling laptop, toy blocks, basket of vegetables, volunteer badge, and stuffed lion

A woman juggles various objects representing work, volunteering, and family life on a busy street.

Pip: There’s a certain kind of advice that sounds like it came from a motivational poster that survived a shipwreck — and yet somehow, that’s exactly what you need to hear on a Monday morning.

Mara: masmeron has a piece on building the entrepreneurial mindset, and it covers the kind of foundational thinking that separates people who start from people who sustain. Let’s get into it.

Empowering the Entrepreneurial Mindset

Pip: The question this post is really asking is: what separates the people who fold under pressure from the ones who keep moving? Not talent, not luck — something more like a practiced way of seeing setbacks.

Mara: The post frames it directly: “Challenges, failures, disappointments, and frustrations are not your losing moments but rather just your stepping stone towards success. Whatever it takes, never quit.”

Pip: So the reframe here is practical — every obstacle is reclassified. Not a stop sign, a waypoint. That shift in interpretation is what keeps someone in motion when the circumstances aren’t cooperating.

Mara: And the post builds on that across ten concrete tips. One of the more underrated ones is the instruction to pause before acting — “Learn how to pause, stop, listen then move to the right direction.” That’s not passivity. That’s calibration.

Pip: Right, and there’s a tip about writing down ideas even in the middle of sleepless nights that quietly admits something real — that entrepreneurial thinking doesn’t clock out. The brain keeps working whether you’ve scheduled it to or not.

Mara: The post also draws a clear line between motivation and staying power: “Success does not depend and rely on your motivation and goals alone but rather drives in with your consistent perseverance and self-determination.” Motivation is the spark; the rest is the engine.

Pip: That’s the one that sticks. Motivation is the thing everyone talks about. Perseverance is the thing that actually shows up on Tuesday.

Mara: The post closes by pulling it all together — knowledge, competencies, experience, and attitude as the four pillars of a successful business journey. None of them optional.


Pip: The through-line here is really about building a mindset that doesn’t need perfect conditions to function.

Mara: Which is probably the most durable thing anyone can develop. More to come on that territory next time.

Baston, Pamaypay at Punda

14 Jan
Wooden walking cane, black decorative folding fan, and folded embroidered cloth on wooden table

An antique wooden cane rests on a rustic table alongside a decorative hand fan and embroidered cloth.

Dahil napagod ang aking isipan sa maghapong paggawa ng mga gawain pampaaralan ay hirap ako makatulog ng Linggo ng gabi nang ika-10 ng Enero, 2026. Mga pasado alas 10 ng gabi na seguro ako nakatulog kalaunan. Habang mahimbing akong nakatulog sa kalamigan ng kuarto ko ay nanaginip ako at ganito ang mga pangyayari na isasalaysay ko sa inyo.

Ang Pagdating ni Nanay sa Bahay

Sa probinsiya namin ay may okasyon na nagaganap sa bahay. Pagtitipon ng buong pamilya at mga kamag-anak. Nagulat ako nang buksan ko ang pinto ng bahay namin ay bumungad sa aking harapan si Nanay. Parang pagod siya na dumating galing sa paglalakad sa gitna sikat ng araw. Naka kulay lila siyang duster na suot. Puti at maiksi ang buhok niya. Ang sabi ko, “Sino kasama ninyo dumating?” “Mag-isa lamang ba kayo?” Hindi siya nakasagot. Mag-isa nga dahil wala akong nakitang kasama niya. Pumasok siya sa bahay pero kalaunan ay lumabas siya ng bahay at umupo siya sa kabilang gilid ng daan na yari sa semento. Walang bangko o upuan doon pero umupo pa rin na para bang namamahinga o may hinihintay. Wala siyang katabi o kausap sa may daanan.

Ang Pag-uwi ni Nanay at Indo Pancing

Nang kalaunan ay nagpasyang umuwi si Nanay. Mabilis ang kanyang paglalakad. Sinusundan ko daw siya para alalayan. Hinawakan ko ang braso niya na payat, malambot, kulubot na parang naglalaylayan na ang mga balat. Pero maliksi at malakas pa rin ang pangangatawan niya kahit na siya ay payat. Ayaw niyang pahawak sa braso kaya binitiwan ko na lang ang braso niya. Nang paliko kami ng daan ay napansin si Nanay na itinapon na baston na yarin sa bakal, itim ang hawakan at itim din ang paanan ng baston. Hindi niya basta makuha dahil nakapulupot ito sa water hose at basa ito dahil sa tumutulong tubig. Ang sabi ni Nanay, “Kailangan ko ito.” habang pilit niyang hinihila yung baston na napupuluputan ng water hose. Mukhang ayos at buo pa ang baston. Nahugot niya rin at nag-umpisa ng maglakad gamit ang bastong nakuha sa harapan ng bahay. Nang akma na kaming papaalis ay may lumabas na babae na may hawak na tatlong pamaypay na may ibat ibang kulay, may kulay berde, dilawan at pula na nakabalot pa ng plastic. Iniaabot ng babae sa amin. Seguro naawa dahil naglalakad kami sa gitna ng araw. Sabi ko kay Nanay, “Baka may may-ari ng baston na yan na napulot natin.” Sumagot yung lalaki na nakasalamin na asawa ng babae na lumabas rin bahay nila. Ang sabi ng lalaki, “Sa inyo na yan dahil may nabili na kaming bago.” Nagpasalamat kami sa lalaki. Habang naglalakad kami ni Nanay, hindi namin namamalayan na nakasunod pala sa amin si Indo Pancing, kapatid ni Nanay na pauwi rin. Si Indo Pancing ay nakasuot ng duster na dirty white ang kulay ng damit. May napulot din siya na mga punda ng unan sa daan sa tapat rin ng bahay na kung saan namin napulot ang baston ni Nanay. Ang mga punda ng unan ay marami kaya nakasayad pa ang mga ito sa lupa habang si Indo Pancing ay naglalakad. Ang punda ng unan ay yari sa manipis na tela na parang tela ng kulambo ang ginamit. Ang mga punda ay parisukat Ang hugis na parang pang throw pillow ito at may ibat ibang kulay rin na light mga kulay nila, may berde, pula, asul, at iba pa.

Nauna nang nauna si Nanay sa paglalakad at hindi ko na natanaw. Nakasunod sa kanya si Indo Pancing na may hila-hilang mga punda ng unan. Ang sabi ko, “Nasaan na si Nanay?” Nakita ko sa malayo na nakarating na si Nanay sa tirahan niya. Nakikita ko sa malayo ang bubungan ng bahay na parang bungalow style nito na isang palapag lamang. Nakita ko si Nanay na nasa harapan ng bahay niya at hindi makapasok dahil nakapadlock pala yung gate nito. Isang lalaki na lumabas sa Isang malapit sa bahay ni Nanay sa gawing gilid sila ng bahay parang si Ca Raul at may dala-dalang baril. Tumayo Yung lalaki na naka puting T-shirt sa kabilang gilid ng kalsada at nakaharap sa harapan ng bahay ni Nanay. Para mabuksan ang gate ay itinutok niya yung baril na dala sa kandado para mabuksan lamang ito.

Nagising ako ng pasado ala una ng madaling araw ng Lunes, ika-12 ng Enero, 2026. Pumasok sa isip ko na parehas pala ang araw ng kamatayan nila Nanay at Indo Pancing, magkapatid sila, na natapat sa hindi inaasahang pagkakataon ay sa tuwing Enero 28 ang death anniversary nilang dalawa. Tapos si Nanay ay namatay ng 1:03 ng hapon at ang kaarawan niya ay sa buwan ng Disyembre.

 

Tatlong-Palapag na Gusali

11 Jan
Stone building with tree sculpture, people walking around, mountain valley at sunset

People gather around a detailed stone building set in a lush mountain valley at sunset.

Gabi ng Sabado petsa Enero 10, 2026 nataon sa kapistahan ng Santo Nino ay nanaginip ako ng isang gusali na may tatlong palapag. Nagsimula ang panaginip ko na umakyat ako sa isang gusali na may tatlong palapag. May hagdanan ito pataas at umabot ako sa ikatlong palapag ng gusali. Mukhang bahay yung gusali na inakyat ko. Nang nasa ikatlong palapag na ako ay nakita ko na ang mga dingding at kisame nito ay yari sa semento na pininturahan ng light color na parang pinaghalo ng puting pintura at konting asul kaya medyo bluish ang puting pintura nito. Nakita ko sa pag-akyat ko na may malaking tubo yari sa bakal sa loob ng bahay na malapit sa hagdanan. Nakapintura din ito katulad ng kulay ng nasa dingding at kisame ng bahay. Hindi ako nagtagal sa ikatlong palapag at bumaba na ako. Paglabas ko ng bahay ay napalingon ako sa gawing kaliwa at natanaw ko ang isang gusali rin na may tatlong palapag. Sa pakiwari ko ay isang paaralan ito ng sekondarya na may light color din pero yung paaralan ay medyo matingkad ang pagkaasul niya kaysa sa bahay na kung saan ako bumaba. May isang lalaki na nakaputing kamiseta na may kwelyo na nasa edad 30 hanggang 40 siya at may dalang flashlight dahil parang magdapit hapon na noon. Nakita ko tatlong palapag na gusali ay madilim at walang mga ilaw. Yung lalaki na mukhang bantay ng paaralan at ako ay naglakad patungo sa paaralan. Yung lalaki na nakaputing kamiseta na may kwelyo ay pumasok sa gawing kaliwa ng gusali. Hindi ako sumunod dahil madilim ang gusali at nagkaroon ako ng takot na pumasok sa gusali. Habang nasa baba at harapan ako ng gusali ay maya-maya ay nakita ko na maraming mga bata na bumababa sa gusali na nagdudulot ng ingay ang kanilang pag-uusap habang bumababa sa mga hagdan ng paaralan. Hindi sila naka-uniporme na parang nagpraktis sila. May mga lalaki at babae na pawang mga estudyante sa sekondarya. May mga lalaki na nakashort at nakasapatos. Yung isang mataas at kayumangging lalaki ay nakasuot ng gray na kamiseta. Ang mga babae ay nakashort din. Ang isang maputi at magandang babae ay naka-kamiseta na satin na may stripe na kulay na pababa ang disenyo ng stripes nito. Ang kulay ng stripes ay dark blue o navy blue sa magkabilang gilid at ang stripe sa gitna ay kulay puti. Ang babae ay nakapony tail ang kanyang buhok. Marami ang bumababa at nagstand by pa sa harap ng paaralan dahil may silongan ito at may mga upuan pa at doon nila inilatag ang kanilang mga bags habang patuloy silang nakikipagkwentuhan sa isa’t isa.

Nagising ako at alas singko y media (5:30) na pala ng umaga ng Linggo, Enero 11, 2026.

 

Hapunan sa Isang Kainan

3 Jan
Rustic wooden dining table with candles, fruit, open book, model boats, and telescope

An inviting rustic dining table set with candles, fresh fruit, and nautical-themed decorations

Ika-03 ng Enero, 2026 nang madaling araw ay nanaginip ako na nasa isang kainan kaming mga magkakapatid sampu ng kanilang mga pamilya. Dumating daw kami sa kainan na gabi na at doon maghahapunan. Nasa bukana lang kami ng kainan at naghanap ng mauupuan dahil maraming kumakain sa loob na pawang mga banyaga ito at may mga mapuputing mga tao na nakaupo sa loob ng kainan na nagkukwentuhan. Nababanaag ko sa panaginip ko ang isang maputing babae na malapit sa aming kinatatayuan na nakaupo at nakikipag-usap sa kanyang kaharap. Blonde ang buhok nito at naka-pony tail ito at nakasuot ng sleeveless na itim na damit. Nakatagilid siya sa amin na nakikipag-usap kaya yung gilid ng mukha lamang niya ang nakikita ko. Ang ilaw sa kainan ay medyo dilawan ang kulay at hindi gaanong maliwanag. Nakita ko na punong-puno ng tao ang kainan. Wala kaming maupuan kaya tumawag kami ng isang waiter para bigyan kami ng upuan. Nag-abot ang waiter ng dalawang bangko na natitiklop. Ang bangko na unang inilatag ay isang mahaba at sinundan ito ng isang maiksi. Inilatag muna yung mahabang bangko na natitiklop na parisukat ang bawat sukat nito nang makita ko ito sa top view na magkakabit kabit ang bawat sukat na kulay brown ang kulay at walang sandalan ito. Mukhang nakadesenyo ang bawat sukat nito sa bawat tao na uupo. Sa mahabang bangko na nasa gilid inilatag ay doon naupo halos ang mga babae na kapamilya ko. Tapos may lamesa na natitiklop din sa gawing harapan ng mahabang bangko. Pagkatapos nailatag yung mahabang bangko ay inilatag din ang maiksing bangko sa kabila nito. Sabi ko raw sa sarili ko na “Bakit maiksi yung isa eh marami kami”. Tapos sa likod namin pag uupo na kami ay daanan ito ng mga tao na magiging sagabal kami sa pagpasok ng mga tao sa kainan dahil malapit kami sa pintuan ng kainan o baga nasa bukana kami ng kainan.

Umorder na ang mga kapatid ko ng mga pagkaing Filipino. Habang kami ay naghihintay ng inorder na pagkain ay may dumating na isang maputing babae na mukhang Hispanic ang itsura nito. Marami itong bitbit na mukhang mga pinamili niya dahil pawang nasa loob ng paper bag ay yung mga pinamili niya. Tumayo yung babae sa tapat ng aming lamesa. Iniisip niya kung uupo ba siya sa lamesa namin dahil wala ng maupuan sa loob ng kainan. Maya-maya na nga ay umupo na rin siya sa aming maiksing bangko para kumain sa lamesa namin. Sabi ko raw sa isang kapatid ko na babae habang naghuhugas ako ng kamay bago kumain na “Pwede ba siya makikain sa atin?” “Magugustuhan kaya niya yung pagkaing Pinoy”. Sumagot ang kapatid kong babae at sinabi niya na “Pwede naman siya makisabay at makikain sa atin. Kaya lang baka mag-aagawan sila sa pagkain at mahihiya siya makiagaw. Hindi rin siya makakain ng husto.”

Nang malapit na ako matapos maghugas ng mga kamay ko ay may pumila na babae na naka bistida na sleeveless at kulay itim ang bistida niya. Parang siya yung babae na Hispanic na maghuhugas ng kamay rin ng mga kamay bago siya makisalo sa hapag kainan namin.

Nagising na ako at 7:30 ng umaga na pala ng Sabado. Nagreflect ito sa kisame ng kuarto ko nang oras na yun.

 

Lucky 7

7 Dec
Colorful infographic explaining different meanings of the number seven in mythology, days of the week, wonders, rainbow colors, harmony, and spirituality

Exploring the mystical and cultural importance of the number seven across various contexts

On the 7th day of December, 2024, my loving mother was born and named her Teofila Montehermoso Mas. Being the youngest among her siblings, my mother was the lucky one for us. She was the blessing to her own family as well as to her parents and siblings. Today is her 101st birthday in heaven. We also lucky enough and fortunate to have a loving Nanay, our mother. Nanay was a loving and caring mother. Also, she was an empathetic woman who is resilient, tough, hardworking, patient, responsible, determined, hopeful, faithful, understanding, courageous, helpful, kind, and can forgive persons.

Nanay together with her family surpassed many challenges in life but they never quit or surrendered. My mother tried her best to help and support her family at all times. Her death at the age of 94 was so painful and very sorrowful to us but her legacy as a loving mother remains with us. Her mother’s advice was our prime treasure more than anything else. Her greatest life served as our inspiration. Her personal and family values were very remarkable to us.

 

THANKS

20 Aug
Central brain graphic labeled gratitude surrounded by sections on well-being, social connections, professional life, physical health, mental resilience, and cultural expressions

Illustration showing how gratitude positively impacts well-being, social connections, and health

Thanks is a single word but it implies multi-cultural and contextual meanings significantly regardless of age, sex, and socioeconomic status of a person. Allow me to spell it out to understand its deeper meanings.

T – T stands for Trust – Every person should develop trust even if no one sees him or nobody forces him.

H – H stands for Harmony – Every person should establish harmonious relationship with others.

A – A stands for Attitude – Every person should always maintain a positive outlook in life.

N – N stands for Nurturing – Every person should learn how to nurture others.

K – K stands for Kindness – Every person should say kind words and do kind actions.

S – S stands for Sustainability – Every person should always sustain his faith, love, and empathy.

Always bear in mind that giving “thanks” to God, parents, siblings, relatives, friends, colleagues, teachers, professionals across all areas, classmates, students, farmers, fishermen, vendors, utilility men, rescuers, firemen, drivers, policement, media men, public employees, businessmen, military men, leaders, clergymen, and others is the simplest and convenient way to recognize their value, respect their integrity, and honor their existence.

 

Dancing and Singing with my Father

27 May
Father and daughter holding hands and singing with a microphone in decorated living room

A father and daughter enjoy singing and dancing together in a cozy living room decorated for Christmas.

Today, May 27, is the death anniversary of my loving father, Guillermo Menes Meron. I know that my father was a great folk singer and dancer in our hometown, Santa Cruz, Zambales, during his younger years. He was usually invited by single men for Harana or locally known as “Tapat” at night time to accompany them while singing in front of the house of the ladies whom they like. Most of the time, there were three of them such as a guitarist, single man and a singer. These men including my father went home late but with smiles on their faces.

My father was also invited in wedding parties, fiestas and political campaigns with folk singing and folk dancing. He entertained the people around with his songs. He sang Zambal songs as well as Tagalog songs whoever his audience is.

If given the opportunity to bring back the past, I wish to dance and sing with my father while my mother is sitting in front and happily watching us.

 

 

Snow Experience

16 Jan
Young Asian man joyfully experiencing snowfall

Stepping on the snow and feels its coldness is one of the greatest dreams of any person living in the region with temperate or warm climate or experiencing dry and wet seasons only. It sounds pretty amazing sometimes to be like a child specially when you missed those things that you never had experienced when you were a child. Snow that you often see only in the holiday greeting cards is now real thing on your hands and feet.

In Science, snow is a part of the water cycle. It appears during the process of precipitation whereas water falls on the surface in various forms such as drizzle, rain, hail, sleet or snow. Snow is a solid form of water. Snow is made up of purely two hydrogen atoms and one atom of oxygen just like the rain water. If pure water reacts with other elements or compounds in the air or on the earth surface, it is considered a mixture already. If the air temperature in the atmosphere is on or below freezing point which is zero degree Celsius, this is the time when the condensed water in the atmosphere turns into snow then falls to the ground or commonly called “snowfall”.

Snowfall has advantages and disadvantages as well. Snow makes the surroundings purely white in color which lasts for several days. It binds the family members at home to stay connected and engaged. However, snow can also harm plants, animals and humans due to severe coldness. It also disrupts the daily activities at work. Snow can also affect the motorists, power supplies, public and private sectors including business communities.

In spite of advantages and disadvantages of snowfall, let us consider that it is a natural phenomenon beyond our control but we can mitigate and prevent its massive adverse effects by understanding the nature of snow and its possible impacts to our physical, social, emotional, economical and political environments. From then, we can design good plans, make wiser decisions and do great actions.

Brother

6 Jun

“Life time is a measurable variable but life memories go beyond measurable time.”

Renato Mas Meron
Thank you for loving us.

Brother, when you were a little boy

Your parents were happy to see your face

Because people really admired your cute face

Brother, when you were grown up boy

Your parents were happy to see you working

Because people really admired your humble job

Brother, when you were a teenager

Your parents were happy to see you dancing

Because people really pleased and turned their heads on you

Brother, when your were a family man

Your parents were happy to hear your songs while singing in Karaoke

Brother, since you were born until you grew old

You let your parents, brothers, sisters, wife, children, grandchildren,

relatives, friends and neighbors felt happy anywhere and anytime

Your loving and happy memories remained in their thoughts and hearts.

Thank you for loving us.