Tag Archives: New Year

Hapunan sa Isang Kainan

3 Jan

Ika-03 ng Enero, 2026 nang madaling araw ay nanaginip ako na nasa isang kainan kaming mga magkakapatid sampu ng kanilang mga pamilya. Dumating daw kami sa kainan na gabi na at doon maghahapunan. Nasa bukana lang kami ng kainan at naghanap ng mauupuan dahil maraming kumakain sa loob na pawang mga banyaga ito at may mga mapuputing mga tao na nakaupo sa loob ng kainan na nagkukwentuhan. Nababanaag ko sa panaginip ko ang isang maputing babae na malapit sa aming kinatatayuan na nakaupo at nakikipag-usap sa kanyang kaharap. Blonde ang buhok nito at naka-pony tail ito at nakasuot ng sleeveless na itim na damit. Nakatagilid siya sa amin na nakikipag-usap kaya yung gilid ng mukha lamang niya ang nakikita ko. Ang ilaw sa kainan ay medyo dilawan ang kulay at hindi gaanong maliwanag. Nakita ko na punong-puno ng tao ang kainan. Wala kaming maupuan kaya tumawag kami ng isang waiter para bigyan kami ng upuan. Nag-abot ang waiter ng dalawang bangko na natitiklop. Ang bangko na unang inilatag ay isang mahaba at sinundan ito ng isang maiksi. Inilatag muna yung mahabang bangko na natitiklop na parisukat ang bawat sukat nito nang makita ko ito sa top view na magkakabit kabit ang bawat sukat na kulay brown ang kulay at walang sandalan ito. Mukhang nakadesenyo ang bawat sukat nito sa bawat tao na uupo. Sa mahabang bangko na nasa gilid inilatag ay doon naupo halos ang mga babae na kapamilya ko. Tapos may lamesa na natitiklop din sa gawing harapan ng mahabang bangko. Pagkatapos nailatag yung mahabang bangko ay inilatag din ang maiksing bangko sa kabila nito. Sabi ko raw sa sarili ko na “Bakit maiksi yung isa eh marami kami”. Tapos sa likod namin pag uupo na kami ay daanan ito ng mga tao na magiging sagabal kami sa pagpasok ng mga tao sa kainan dahil malapit kami sa pintuan ng kainan o baga nasa bukana kami ng kainan.

Umorder na ang mga kapatid ko ng mga pagkaing Filipino. Habang kami ay naghihintay ng inorder na pagkain ay may dumating na isang maputing babae na mukhang Hispanic ang itsura nito. Marami itong bitbit na mukhang mga pinamili niya dahil pawang nasa loob ng paper bag ay yung mga pinamili niya. Tumayo yung babae sa tapat ng aming lamesa. Iniisip niya kung uupo ba siya sa lamesa namin dahil wala ng maupuan sa loob ng kainan. Maya-maya na nga ay umupo na rin siya sa aming maiksing bangko para kumain sa lamesa namin. Sabi ko raw sa isang kapatid ko na babae habang naghuhugas ako ng kamay bago kumain na “Pwede ba siya makikain sa atin?” “Magugustuhan kaya niya yung pagkaing Pinoy”. Sumagot ang kapatid kong babae at sinabi niya na “Pwede naman siya makisabay at makikain sa atin. Kaya lang baka mag-aagawan sila sa pagkain at mahihiya siya makiagaw. Hindi rin siya makakain ng husto.”

Nang malapit na ako matapos maghugas ng mga kamay ko ay may pumila na babae na naka bistida na sleeveless at kulay itim ang bistida niya. Parang siya yung babae na Hispanic na maghuhugas ng kamay rin ng mga kamay bago siya makisalo sa hapag kainan namin.

Nagising na ako at 7:30 ng umaga na pala ng Sabado. Nagreflect ito sa kisame ng kuarto ko nang oras na yun.

Goodbye and Hello

27 Dec

Goodbye (“God be with you.”) and Hello (“Wishing you a good health.”) may sound contradictory words but for real, these words are so relevant and interrelated with each other.

How do you say “Goodbye” for the current year? How do you say, “Hello” for the coming year? Every year, people around the world have different beliefs, traditions and practices as observed in their own unique culture. These practices were not only be seen at the end of the year but throughout the months of the year. Variation of these practices occurs when people adopt and adapt certain changes due to some influential factors as days pass by. Throughout the year, many things had happened in our life as manifested by tears of joy, tears of pain or tears of grief. Every moment in life is so significant that marks our lifetime history. For the younger children, their clock might seem so slow while for the elderly people, it might seem so fast. Infact, they have the same clock speed.

What shall we do? Perhaps, we shall live normally with our fullest potentials. Learn how to enjoy a wonderful, happy and peaceful life. Everything starts with a wiser decision whatever the reasons or purposes that we want to be or need to achieve. Never pressure or stretch out ourselves beyond our limits and capabilities. Learn how to turn out our negatives into positive outcomes. The turning point starts in our own feet to move towards the direction that we aim to attain. Appropriate mindsetting is necessary to get into the turning point indepedently.

Hello” and “Goodbye” are still there not because of the reason that “Nothing is permanent.”, but because God is always with us permanently wherever we go and whatever we do and also saying, “Hello and Goodbye.” to us.

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Christmas and New Year in the Eyes of a Sick, Disabled and Elderly Person

25 Dec

A few days before Christmas, people go to the shopping malls and public markets to buy some gift items for their relatives and friends. I want to go and do the same but I can’t because I am already 95 years old who are sitting on a wheelchair and nobody can bring me there.

A few days before Christmas, people go to Christmas parties and enjoy with their friends and relatives. I want to go and do the same but I have arthritis already and I can’t dance anymore.  I have Alzheimer’s disease too and I can’t remember the lyrics of my favorite songs.

On Christmas Day, people rise up early from bed and take a shower. Then, people prepare their Christmas meals. I want to do it the same but I can’t do it anymore by myself.  I can’t rise up and there is tremendous leg and back pains every time I move my body.

On Christmas Day, people enjoy eating their meals and having happily chatting with their friends, neighbors and relatives. I want to stay longer with them and feel their presence but I can’t do it anymore. I can’t sit on my wheelchair longer because I get easily tired and there is a back pain.  I can’t easily process and feel confused with the various information that I can hear. I get easily sleep on my wheelchair if nobody is interested to talk with me.

On Christmas Day, people hear the Holy Mass and visit some tourist spots. I want to go with them but nobody invites me.  I used to stay at home sitting on my wheelchair or lying on my bed.  I have many thoughts, feel hopeless and lonely.

Before New Year’s Day, people go to the supermarkets and buy food items. I want to do the same but I can’t go there by myself and I have no enough money to buy some foods.

On New Year’s Eve, people cook several foods and prepare them on the dining table with fresh fruits and cold desserts. I want to do it the same but I can’t do it anymore.

On New Year’s Eve, people go outside their houses. They light up their pyrotechnics and firecrackers on the sky. I want to view these things even on my window but I can’t see these lights clearly anymore because I have both eyes cataract. Instead, I tend to sleep on my bed calmly.

On New Year’s Day, people hear the Holy Mass again then they go to shopping malls and have a walk on some tourist spots. I want to go with them but again nobody invites me and brings me there.